ABOUT ME

Alexandra Kurowski

I came to this work out of my own healing. In the years following an open marriage, divorce, dating and the occasional solitude. I had profound moments of connectedness, joy, and awareness as much as deep loss and confusion.

As a professional in the healing arts, I have dedicated myself to life’s great mysteries and have used my own life as a testing ground.

I knew exploring intimacy was the next frontier for me.

I enrolled in the Somatica Institute in San Francisco to understand myself, and the subtle experience of intimacy.

Unlike the support I would find in the spiritual community, which tended toward the romantic and fantastical, Somatica was reality-based. And while talk therapy was helpful, Somatica got my sapiosexual self out of my head and into my body in ways that were revelatory.

Indeed, it opened me up and gave me a language for my rich inner world. In being more vulnerable with myself, I was able to lead with that vulnerability in all of my relationships. I felt as if I was brought back to life. I began to meet new people and feel more empowered in my relationships.

Somatica® Sessions

I quickly saw how incorporating the tools of intimacy in my sessions brought clients to a deeper awareness of their own emotional landscape.

I already have my gaze on the hidden and subconscious treasures in a person, seeing their inner tensions honestly and lovingly. This is expressed very naturally in sexuality and can be quite magnetic, but like anyone struggling to see themselves in the world, there are layers to understand and heal in the process.

I see and accept each individual as their own work of art, and we are letting that unique expression shine through.

Sexuality is not something people talk about easily, yet it is uniquely expressed through all of us.

I had already worked as a spiritual facilitator and reader since 2008. I have counseled clients through relationships, break-ups, open-relationships naturally. Clients who had histories of sexual trauma, shame, and confusion would find safety with me. I wanted them to move past the shame and accept themselves. It was my desire for them to know what gave them pleasure and to ask for it,

to feel empowered and in love with life.